Wednesday 25 July 2012

The perfect body......dealing with insecurities.

Ok, so u know your imperfections and insecurities. How then do you deal with them? First and most importantly, you must LOVE YOURSELF. There are some things we have no control over, i mean, we didn't create ourselves. So even if we wish from now till thy kingdom come, it still changes nothing. Rather it causes depression and brings about low self esteem. So why not quit complaining and work on those things we have control over? You know the case of someone with shoes complaining till he saw another person without legs? Do we really need to see the blind and the cripple before we realize how truly blessed and privileged we are? I hope not. Another thing is, we need to focus more on the positives. U think your nose is too big?.....how bou those cute eyes and sexy lips *winks*. The funny thing is,that feature you're complaining about,some1 somewhere thinks they're really cute! I have this friend from way back in secondary that i just loved her legs. I didn't tell her though, I was  just "scoping" it. You can now imagine my shock when she told me she didn't like her legs. She wishes they were like this and that.....like really? I thought they were really cute. Well since she didn't like her legs, I started looking at them  differently. Like mayb there's something wrong with it that i'm not seeing. My point here is, the way you portray yourself is the way people will see you. If all you portray are your weak points, they will never see your strong points.
Apart from highlighting or emphasizing your strong points, you also need to downplay your weak points. If for instance you're on the big side,avoid wearing clothes that are too tight or makes you look bigger than you really are. You have stretch marks?....cover them up. Your feet is too large?....there are lovely shoes your size is in the market. You just havn't searched well enough. Your head is too big....avoid extensions that makes it look bigger. Your boobs are small?....padded bras to the rescue. Its as simple as that! 
As you start and end your day, always be thankful for every little thing in your life.

2 comments:

  1. Y do I have a feeling someone is refering to me personally. With reference to the *big nose* nice one dear. Keep it up

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  2. lol this is so true!! i couldnt stop laughing at the leg and the nose bit, i once fell under that category but thankfully i am way above that! Just to add to your beautiful write up, 'no one can make you feel inferior without your consent'...its totally up to you. Isnt it nice to know youre in control, i totally love it!

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