I remember talking with my friend few days ago when this topic of house-helps came up. I can't even remember how and when we got to that topic. Anyways, She said she was never going to have a male help in the house, for the sake of her daughter. She also added that her little girl was going to be her handbag, meaning that, she was gonna take her wherever she goes. I suppose it stems from the fact that, that was exactly what her mother did with her while growing up.
I must add here that my sister does exactly that with her only daughter. She goes everywhere with the little girl, leaving the boys to take care of themselves. What with all the stories going round of houseboys and even uncles sexually molesting little girls, its the safest thing to do. I will do exactly that when i have my own little Didi *insert huge smile*. (she shall be called April :D)
One now asks, what happens to the boys? Shouldn't we be as concerned for them as we are with the girls? If you ask most guys these days about their first sexual experience or how they lost their virginity, you'll find out that a larger percentage of them lost it to their house-help.
Just recently, An Asian housemaid in Abu Dhabi waited for her Arab employer and his wife to go out before laying their one-year-old boy naked on the bed, took her clothes off and defiles him, unaware of the hidden cameras installed in the house.
The film showed the maid and the baby both unclad as she sat on top of him, ignoring his cries because of pain. Annoyed by his non-stop cries, the maid then beat the baby and placed a pillow on his face to stifle his noise as she continued abusing him.She was arrested in the capital.
The prosecutor accused the maid of defiling the baby and endangering his life. When she was shown the film, she confessed to her crime".
According to my friend, the best bet is a Nanny. In other words, a mature woman, more like an elderly woman, both for the sake of her kids.....and her husband! Lool. What do you think?
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